CJ doesn't have to say anything; if she likes the look of him she'll ask for a date, if she doesn't she'll brush him off and say what she doesn't like about him.There are usually particular appearance features a girl likes.If CJ meets her criteria, it's a date; if not, she'll give him tips about what to improve so he can dress up and work out and try again later.However if CJ's sex appeal rating is high enough (through things like a modded car, clothes, and oyster collection) that will override the girl's fancy and he can date her regardless of his physique.If she's home a two-player icon (PS2 and Xbox only) and a red marker will appear, along with her car.Simply walk or drive into the red marker to begin the date.
Some girlfriends will like you to drive fast or slow. The girls have a lot of health but they can still be killed; if a girl is killed by CJ (not counting other drivers etc.There's a club in each major city: When you get to the club, a minigame starts.You have to hit the buttons as shown as they pass though the circle, as in the Life's a Beach mission. Hitting her once might not fail the date, but hitting more than once or shooting will instantly end the date.San Andreas introduces the ability for the player to pick up dates and go out with them.
The main reason to date a girl is to get a special bonus in exchange.Consider flying your date in an airplane or helicopter if her location makes this feasible. They will be VERY appreciative, even if you are barely able to land (at least with the "Hot Coffee" mod which may have unlocked some additional uncensored materials). If you take Millie for a driving date in a helicopter she will quickly get upset about the speed and the date will end soon.