Writing an interesting question or two can't guarantee a response, but NOTHING CAN. Don't waste your time and don't waste anyone else's — you have to put in a little work this way, but just do it.
If we wanted to read your profile, we'd have gone to it.
Do: Initiate an in-person Encounter ASAP One of the potential pitfalls of online dating is that people sometimes get lulled into a passive email exchange that lasts for months rather than pursuing an in-person encounter. To ease any anxiety about a first face-to-face date, keep things simple.
The danger is that you run the risk of becoming emotionally invested in a potential match, only to discover that when you meet face-to-face, things fizzle. Once a comfortable rapport has been established, it’s time to take your online courtship into reality, even if that means you’re the one initiating it. Opt for an afternoon coffee date rather than dinner, drinks, or any other after-dark activity.
Do: Represent Yourself Fairly While it’s far too easy and commonplace to misrepresent yourself online (shaving off a few years from your age, exaggerating your income, showcasing decades-old photos, etc.), you’re far more likely to achieve dating and mating success online if you’re open and honest about who you really are.
By unapologetically celebrating who you are, both online and via email, you show your potential match how to appreciate and treat you, warts and all.
If and when you catch someone in a lie, call that person out on it, report his or her behavior if it’s dangerous or detrimental to anyone else, and move on as quickly as possible.
In the world of online dating, there’s a fine line between selling yourself short and just plain overselling yourself.
In order to catch and keep someone’s attention, you’ve got to be interesting, engaging, and effective at establishing rapport, all while maintaining a bit of mystery. The following are some practical do’s and don’ts that, when put into practice, can exponentially increase your chances of long-term dating success.
That’s why it’s essential during the getting-to-know-you process to be open and friendly while still maintaining a sense of mystery.
Share enough information about yourself to excite, entice, and/or intrigue your potential match, while still leaving him or her wanting more. Here’s a good rule of thumb to follow: Keep your profile answers short, succinct, and sassy.An online dating message is not the same (thank GOD) as a job application.